[Our] throne of destiny is not defined by relationship failures, others' inability to [offer support], or others' unwillingness to offer love. Our throne and our crown are both maintained and [metaphorically] straightened by the power we harness within to move beyond blame and situate ourselves in our own truth. It is when we live in that truth, and take actions accordingly that we see our resentment diminish when others do not meet our expectations.

Excerpt from Chapter 16, The Invitation to Love