In my life, I have seen nothing that has transformed my relationships and the ability to express love more fully than in the invitation. The invitation is the moment when I have found enough self-worth to muster the courage to say what it is I need to say, not from a place of anger, but from a place of love. Love is often quoted as being a commitment and not a feeling; I could not agree more. When I have offered the invitation to others, I am acknowledging my commitment to them by sharing openly, and my commitment to myself by acknowledging that my voice is one that is worthy to be heard.